Life, Relationship, Heart Clinic

Anything is possible when u choose to make it possible You should be like Wildflowers that grow in a mountain or in a field and manage to bloom even when they are not nurtured or watered.  Wildflower is still a flower and would be cherished when seen.  Whether you bloom early or late, you are still a flower.  You will have many days of frustration in your life; however, don't ever think of giving up, because you did not come this far just to come this far. Remember that all turbulent time is a visitor and like visitors, they will pass by.  Even if you get stepped on along the way, LIKE A WILDFLOWER, YOU WILL BLOOM AGAIN Wildflowers survive amongst all types of weeds, you will survive too.  Wildflowers bloom anywhere they find themselves, you will bloom too.  No matter how far or how long it seems it is taking, don't give up because your time to bloom is almost here.  You are a WILDFLOWER, you will survive it all. Don't give up!  - Maiden wura.

When a lady see how happy her once upon a time suitor is in his marriage, she will be like ‘’I wish I said yes when he asked me out then… My marriage would have been a fairytale… And they lived happily ever after’’ When a man see how happily married a lady he once ditched is, he will be like ‘’I wish I took her serious and never let her go then… see how happy she is.’’ Her husband is indeed fortunate to have her But the truth is, your marriage or relationship is what you make it to be. You need to stop comparing your spouse or marriage to others. Please don’t get caught in comparison trap because you don’t know what they are going through. You can only see what they chose to show you. Note: every marriage is unique. The fact that the grass looks greener on the other side doesn’t mean you need to move to the other side. It means you have to nurture and water your own plant Truth about marriage The first year of marriage is going to be tough. You will get to see and know what you never s...

One of the secret to a successful marriage is when you marry your best friend. Your best friend is your playmate and your gist mate. Your best friend knows you in and out and will never take your love or feelings for granted. Qualities you get in your best friend that you will rarely get with dates: There is always an unconditional love, mutual feelings and understanding A friends knows your value than any other person Communication won’t flow well when you are not dating your friend because you tend to talk about anything and everything with your friend You can’t beg for attention when dating your friend When dating your best friend, you plan the future together Your best friend will understand your mood swings and will definitely work on settling any misunderstanding Do you know why people fight over sex in relationship? It’s because there is no friendship between them Build friendship before marrying anyone because when you marry someone you really know, it make...