Rebrand your lady, she is beautiful

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All ladies are beautiful, they just need rebranding

I heard lots of stories from ladies on how they were dumped, just because they are not looking good enough for show offs, (i.e they don't wear latest dress/wears or latest wigs/weaves). This gives me a heart wrenching pain whenever the thought of how physical beauty is the judge of how most men treat their women. They termed it - "she is not presentable" 



To the men out there
Most ladies that don't wear the latest dress or latest weaves are not happy with the way they look. And I'm telling you it took them the last ounce of self esteem to walk around not wearing the latest wears or weaves. The least you can do for such lady as a man is make her feel beautiful because looking good is very expensive and not all ladies can afford it. Which is why most result to "other ways" to look good. 
But then, men don't see it that way. They want an independent lady who is good for show offs and not minding what is going through her mind at that point in time or what she is going through. 



Some men even go extra miles by hiding their girls in the toilet or any hidden place whenever they have an unexpected visitor, just because they feel she's not looking good enough to be presented. Some don't even answer the door, they will be like "the person will leave when no one answers the door". Hiding behind the truth of not wanting any disturbance from anyone. 



Due to the above reasons and more, lots of ladies has stooped so low by selling their bodies just in the name of looking good and presentable; some do it just to be the hottest babe with the latest weaves and wears; While some do it just so their fiance or boy friends would be eager and proud to show them off. 



Men, please don't make ur woman feel less beautiful. You have the power to make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman on earth. If you feel she is not looking good enough, please take it upon yourself to REBRAND her. And if you are not financially capable, accept her the way she is and teach her on how to combine her wears to look smart and good. Always remind her of how beautiful she is. Don't give her reasons to go extra miles just to look good for you. 

Appreciate your woman and rebrand her to your taste



Maiden Wura

Comments

  1. UnknownJune 21, 2020 at 1:21 AM

    Well written...
    More grace

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  2. UnknownJune 21, 2020 at 2:18 AM

    Those that placed physical beauty ahead of the ladys heart often regrets it. If they end up not building her beauty

    ReplyDelete

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