Don't marry for them, marry for you!

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I heard getting married is one of the easiest thing to do in our society today.

Gone are those days when the parents of the intending couples do a lot of findings about the family their child is marrying into before approving their marriage.

The aim of this investigation is to make sure their child(ren)  marry into a good family, in terms of health, character, fame, generational curse, among others. 


Parents are simply playing that role to make sure their children did not marry into the wrong family. But today's singles have totally different reasons for choosing their spouse


When we think about two people getting married, we'd like to think that their decision is based on true love. That they have found the person they want to grow old with, who treats them the way they deserve and who is committed into a future together.

Unfortunately, in the real world many of us get married for other reasons than ones above. Though to them, they are great reasons.  Some of which are:

  • ‌ Loneliness
  • ‌ Parent pressure
  • ‌ Peer pressure
  • ‌ Physical cuteness
  • ‌ Money
  • ‌ Fame
  • ‌ Sex
  • ‌ Pregnancy
  • ‌ Proving people wrong and so on.

Do not make the mistake to marry for sex. Because a time is coming when the strength will fade.
At that point, what becomes of the marriage?

Money, fame and wealth are just like flowers that blossoms in the morning and dries up in the evening.

Beautiful faces, straight legs, six pack, slim, tall and the figure eight don't last forever. Remember, Our grand parents were once like us.

To marry for love is actually cool. But study shows that the "I LOVE YOU" syndrome only last for five years maximum. Because no one can pretend by hiding his/her real attitude for life.

Note:- There must be a driving force for your union which is your PURPOSE. Because your purpose can never fail when all other things failed. 


Before you marry that person, Ask yourself this question, "Will you still be willing to be with the person you choose if those qualities you see in them aren't there again?

What binds you together must be more than love if you wants your marriage to stand forever (Joel Jclark)  

Maiden Wura

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