Your marriage is as sweet as you make it

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Most couples often give up easily on their marriage due to one reason or the other, not knowing that the faults of their misunderstanding lies between them.


Most times, when a marriage is in trouble, most couples see their marriage as a mistake, rather than seeing the mistakes they are making in their marriage as the challenge they should work on and overcome together. 


At a point, they begin to regret getting married to their partner. Some start thinking of getting new partners; Imagining marrying their ex or fantasizing a marrriage without issues. What they don't know is that there is no perfect marriage out there.


Some work towards perfecting their marriages by accepting their partner's flaws and working on the betterment of their marriage, while most give up on theirs by issuing divorce, and later getting married to someone else.


Sooner or later, they often find themselves  wishing that they had remained with their first spouse because they found greater trouble with the new spouse. This is because the first marriage they gave up on was never a mistake, but lack understanding on both sides.


One thing I want you to know is that the more you remarry, the more problems you experience. 


Note this: divorce or separation is not the solution to consider when you are having problems in your marrriage. You will still experience the same problems over and over again until you discover your mistakes, work on them, and correct them.


For example:  When we have migraine, no matter how sick it makes us feel, we won't cut off the head, rather, we look for ways to make the pains go away.
So also, if we have a wound on any part of our body, we don't cut off the wounded part, rather, we look for solutions on how to heal the wounds.

Most times, when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other's company to the fullest, we admire and cherish them and at times, we get jealous. 

The reason they are happy is that they paid the price, but the opposite is with us. We are not ready to pay the price but we want to enjoy the sweetness in marriage.
Before gold becomes a precious stone, it went true furnace of fire.

In essence, when we have issues in our marriage, we should not try to change our spouse, instead, we should work on our flaws  which is the cause of the problem. 


Your marriage is not a mistake. Change that bad habit of yours, change that character of yours, change that disrespectful manner, work on your anger issues,  learn to forgive and forget, work on your laziness, give your spouse more love, care, attention and affection, have more patience, stop being , selfish...

All in all, work on your flaws and you will see the difference.

Get up now and build your marriage,  because that marriage of yours is not a mistake. Accept each other's flaws and work on it. And you will be surprised. 


Your marriage is as sweet as you make it. 

May God bless your home with peace and happiness


#Maiden Wura

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