Don't Reconnect Due to Loneliness

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Feeling lonely is tough, and it can make us want to reach out to anyone, even when we know they are not good for us. But here's the thing: reconnecting with toxic people when we're lonely is not a good idea. Sure, they might seem familiar and offer temporary relief from feeling alone, but on the long run, it can make things worse.


Toxic people can bring us down, make us doubt ourselves or self worth, and even hurt us emotionally. Most times, they do not have our best interests at heart and could end up making us feel even lonelier than we were. So, it's important to remember that just because we're lonely doesn't mean we should go back to people who we know aren't good for us.


Instead of going back to toxic relationships, it's better to focus on ourselves and find healthier ways to cope with loneliness. We can try new hobbies, reach out to supportive friends or family members, or even spend some time alone doing things we love and enjoy. Taking care of ourselves and surrounding ourselves with positive influences can help us feel less lonely on the long run.


Remember, it's okay to feel lonely sometimes, but reconnecting with toxic people won't solve the problem. Let's prioritize our well-being and mental health by seeking out healthy connections. Note that we can find true happiness and fulfillment, even when we're on our own.


PS : We shouldn't drink poison just because we are thirsty.


Maidenwura 


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