The Journey of Life: The Breaking Stage, The Making Stage, The Showing Stage

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 Life is a complex journey filled with ups, downs, both positive and negative experiences, emotions, and changes. A helpful way to understand the journey of life is through three stages:

  • The Breaking stage
  • The Making stage
  • The Showing stage
These 3 stages reflects how we face challenges, grow as individuals, and share our stories with others to learn from.


The Breaking Stage

The first stage, The Breaking Stage, is about those tough moments in life when we encounter problems, face failures, or go through significant changes. These experiences can be painful and confusing, often leaving us feeling lost. However, they are essential for personal growth.

During this phase, we might start questioning our beliefs, strength, who we are or if we can attain that goals we've set for ourselves. This stage is a time for reflection. Where we reflect on the past mistakes, learn from the mistakes and work on being a better person; It can also be a break down old ways of thinking to make space for new ideas. This breaking can happen due to various life events, like a breakup, losing a job, losing a love one, or even a global crisis. While these experiences are challenging, they often lead to a better understanding of ourselves and the world around us.


The Making Stage 

After the breaking stage comes The Making Stage. This stage is all about rebuilding. Once we’ve gone through the tough times, we start to create new paths for ourselves. This process involves exploring new ideas and embracing change.

In The Making Stage, we use what we learned during the breaking phase to help us move forward. This stage is empowering, as we take our insights and turn them into something meaningful. A fresh start, whether through learning a skill, applying for jobs, starting a new business, or giving room for new relationships. Depending on individuals' breaking stage. This is the time to take risks, learn from mistakes, and discover new possibilities.


The Showing Stage

The final stage which is The Showing Stage, is when we've attain that desired goal(s), or found our happily ever after. We tend to share our experiences with others who are in the breaking or making stage. This phase is about connection and being open. By sharing our journeys, we invite others to see what we’ve been through. That life is not a bed of Roses, nor is the journey of life going to be a smooth one. 


Showing can take many forms—like art shows, public speaking, writing, or simply talking with friends and family. This stage highlights the importance of community and our desire to connect with others. When we share our stories, we not only validate our own experiences but also resonate with those who may have faced similar challenges.


In a broader sense, "The Showing" helps build empathy and understanding among people. It reminds us that we are not alone in our struggles and successes. By being open and sharing, we contribute to a shared human experience that enriches our lives.


Conclusion

The journey of "The Breaking, The Making, The Showing" is a powerful way to understand life. It captures the cycles of challenge, growth, and connection that shapes who we are.


Each stage is important. Embracing the breaking helps us grow, engaging in the making sparks creativity, and participating in the showing builds community and give hope to people who are in the breaking stage. Together, these stages give us a clearer picture of what it means to be human, reminding us of our shared struggles and triumphs in this complex journey of life.


Maidenwura

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