Life, Relationship, Heart Clinic

Anything is possible when u choose to make it possible You should be like Wildflowers that grow in a mountain or in a field and manage to bloom even when they are not nurtured or watered.  Wildflower is still a flower and would be cherished when seen.  Whether you bloom early or late, you are still a flower.  You will have many days of frustration in your life; however, don't ever think of giving up, because you did not come this far just to come this far. Remember that all turbulent time is a visitor and like visitors, they will pass by.  Even if you get stepped on along the way, LIKE A WILDFLOWER, YOU WILL BLOOM AGAIN Wildflowers survive amongst all types of weeds, you will survive too.  Wildflowers bloom anywhere they find themselves, you will bloom too.  No matter how far or how long it seems it is taking, don't give up because your time to bloom is almost here.  You are a WILDFLOWER, you will survive it all. Don't give up!  - Maiden wura.

When a lady see how happy her once upon a time suitor is in his marriage, she will be like ‘’I wish I said yes when he asked me out then… My marriage would have been a fairytale… And they lived happily ever after’’ When a man see how happily married a lady he once ditched is, he will be like ‘’I wish I took her serious and never let her go then… see how happy she is.’’ Her husband is indeed fortunate to have her But the truth is, your marriage or relationship is what you make it to be. You need to stop comparing your spouse or marriage to others. Please don’t get caught in comparison trap because you don’t know what they are going through. You can only see what they chose to show you. Note: every marriage is unique. The fact that the grass looks greener on the other side doesn’t mean you need to move to the other side. It means you have to nurture and water your own plant Truth about marriage The first year of marriage is going to be tough. You will get to see and know what you never s...

One of the secret to a successful marriage is when you marry your best friend. Your best friend is your playmate and your gist mate. Your best friend knows you in and out and will never take your love or feelings for granted. Qualities you get in your best friend that you will rarely get with dates: There is always an unconditional love, mutual feelings and understanding A friends knows your value than any other person Communication won’t flow well when you are not dating your friend because you tend to talk about anything and everything with your friend You can’t beg for attention when dating your friend When dating your best friend, you plan the future together Your best friend will understand your mood swings and will definitely work on settling any misunderstanding Do you know why people fight over sex in relationship? It’s because there is no friendship between them Build friendship before marrying anyone because when you marry someone you really know, it make...

I was sitting on the 13th floor alone Brooding about life, When a spider caught my attention. It climbed to the 13th floor and kept climbing even with the storm out there. It climbed back up every time it fell. Why does the spider climb so high? Striving to get to the top? Why is it is going that high? It probably thinks it can get a better catch up there; Or maybe it believes it can just keep going and going till it get there. Well, that’s what I chose to believe. The spider did not stop till it got to the final floor. Only a small thinker believes there is a particular height to be attained or a particular height is hard to be attained.  Never stop climbing till you get to the top. When you get to that top you have been aiming for, Aim for something greater than that top and never stop climbing Be like the spider and don’t hesitate to devour whatever challenges that may come your way Don’t give up Maiden Wura

Don’t be too quick to make decisions, ‘’GIVE IT TIME’’ When someone approaches you and tell you ‘’I can’t live without you, I love you and I can put up with your flaws’’, before you commit your heart to such person, PLEASE GIVE IT TIME because time test love and proves it When you meet someone today and you feel like marrying such person the next day, before you do, PLEASE GIVE IT TIME When you visit your Uncle, Aunt or friends during vacation and you were treated like a king or queen, don’t be carried away by the way you are being served and start thinking about relocating to their house,  GIVE IT TIME When someone joins your fellowship and is active in all group/department, please don’t rush into making him a leader, GIVE IT TIME When you enter a new environment and everybody worships the ground you step on, please don’t be carried away but GIVE IT TIME When someone comes with a business idea with unbelievable promises, before you involve your money GIVE IT TIME ...

The rich have an effect on the poor Making them wanting to apologize for their poverty And at all times, making them sacrifice future necessities Just so they could make a brief show of the wealth they believe the poor could only hope to have Most people want what they see others enjoying; It doesn’t matter how they get it. There are ways: the good and the other ways; But they only think of one way (going extra miles) You know – the other ways – the bad ones. Survival instincts comes to mind, right? Not knowing that is the path I’m avoiding Cos that path they are taking does a lot of damage than good That path destroys They condemn me because I have not done what others are doing Yet I am in this world They enjoy life to the fullest while I work my behind out Trying to make a living the rightful way I think that’s one of my crimes When I look back on my life, I see pains, mistakes and heartaches But when I look in the mirror, I see strength, lessons lear...

It is hell on earth loving someone who does not love you back; It is self destruction and a host of other emotions I can’t even give a name to. Yet, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it MY FEELINGS The more I try to forget, the more it hurts; The more I try to get over it, the more it hurts; It is as if my heart has stopped and the time seem frozen My breath gets cuts off I seem not to have the courage to speak up my mind to u So I bury it in my heart Just those three words, I can’t say it The more I try, the heavier my heart gets So in my heart, I bury it The tears keeps flowing, it is stained in my breath And engraved on my skin, The more I try to forget, the more painful it is in my heart that is frozen Time of you flows… Have you ever wished someone felt the way you do? One thing I have learned is: You can’t make anyone feel the way you would like them to; nor can you make anyone love you, just because you love them If they do, it’s wonderful ...

Happiness comes at times to us, but sadness comes unbidden; Remember that amidst the smile, a few tears must drop If at times you feel you want to cry because life is such a trial, Remember that above the clouds, there is a bright blue sky Don’t give up If a friend have sadness written on their face Because trouble round them pile up; Remember that the world would be a better place to them if you smile and assure them that all will be well As you travel on life’s compulsory journey Filled with ups and down Remember that before a gold becomes the gold you so much admire, it went through fire So don’t give up because there is a light at the end of the tunnel When you keep aiming for something and all seems not to work according to your plans Remember that good things of life doesn’t come easily, make your effort worthwhile Make your tear a smile Smile is very cheap amongst the world’s expensive gift And you don’t know whose world you are lighting up with your s...