Life, Relationship, Heart Clinic

Having good and genuine friends is among life’s greatest gifts, but the sad truth is that not all friendships are meant to last forever. Some people come into our lives only for a short period of time, either as a blessing or as a lesson. They offer support, lessons, or companionship when we need it the most. When these types of relationships fades, it is easy to feel hurt and start wondering what went wrong.  Friendships, just like the seasons, have their own time and purpose. Some friends are with us for years, while others may walk alongside us for a short period of time. These friendships may offer happiness, support, growth, or even be an obstacle. The truth is, their value is not measured by how long they last, but by the impact they have in shaping us during that particular stage of life. It is natural to feel hurt when a friendship fades, but it is important to remember that not every relationship is meant to last forever. Many of these relationships exists to guide us thro...

The Conditional Nature of Loyalty are relationships where commitment is based on transactional benefits, not deep connection. Which means that loyalty ends when those benefits cease. Many people believe loyalty is permanent, but in reality, most loyalty is tied to benefits. As long as you are giving, helping, or providing something of value, people will stay close. The real test comes when you can no longer offer those benefits. That is when you discover who values you for who you are, not just for what you bring to the table or give to them.  Think about the workplace. Employees often look loyal to their company, but that loyalty usually depends on pay, promotions, or benefits. The moment a better opportunity comes along, many will leave. On the other side, companies also show their loyalties as long as employees are productive. Once an employee's performance drops, the company's loyalty ends quickly. This proves that loyalty in business is often conditional, built on exchange...